Friends

What can we define friends ?
Someone we share our saddest moment with, someone we laugh with, someone who we can depend on.
Well, sadly i seldom get those kind of friends nowadays. Most of the friends i can categorized as "surface" friends. They find you when they need your help, but avoid you when you are in trouble.
But that's life and we cannot avoid it. You see, when they need your help, they will phone and said, hey please help me for example ' fetch my brother, fetch me because i don't have transport, hey my things are at store, please help me get it'. Being a reasonably good friend, i abide by those tiny little request from them, but i never ask anything for return. *Mind you I'm also a student depending on my ptptn money, i need to use the money to pay all my expenses and that including the petrol my car is drinking*. I don't know, i feel that at least when you wanna go out and have some fun they could just ask me to join them.

Usually when i confront them, and ask them hey why didn't you ask me tag along when u guys go out ?
Their common answer:

1) Aiya you got gf ady mah, go out pak tor wif her la...
*In My Mind*: Huh ? Like that also can ar ? What the heck got gf got to do with this ? This is such a lame reason right ? Meaning all those got gf cannot go out with friends and have some fun ? Maybe they nvr pak tor before, i cannot blame them. But if they paktor before, *Silence is my best friend*

2)Aiya forget la..
This one also not a bad way.. 'purposely' forgetting people.. Not bad..

3)You always reject de la..
So what i always reject.. Did you make an effort to ask ? That's the problem, you take for granted for every thing.. Haizz..

Nvmla.. life goes on.. more and more "surface" friends are coming, i must handle them with care.